Monday, May 9, 2011

I'm Not Perfect.... Not Even Close....



Do you ever wonder what it's like to be perfect? I do, but I know it's pretty unattainable. I have my great days and I have my bad days. I laugh, I cry, I get upset, and sometimes I even feel inferior to the world around me. But thankfully I have the knowledge and the people that help bring balance into my life.

I'm really good at bottling up my feelings then kinda losing it, but I've gotten better. It helps to have such a fabulous support system like my husband, but I still have a good cry when I need it. He knows those breakdown moments are rare, but when they come, there is no chance he can stop them. He just lets me do it and he always has a way of just letting me get it all out without the judgement.

Laughter and learning to laugh at your self and not take yourself too seriously has become a constant healing medicine. I used to take everything so seriously and I truely feel I have grown so much in the past few years.

So today I woke up and reminded myself how lucky I am and what I am thankful for. I may not be perfect but I strive for balance through people, good books, my job and constant personal growth. I am so gonna rock in the future! I'm going to get better with age!

Friday, April 29, 2011

Mike's Birthday/Royal Wedding



My husband is magical. He really is. Just like the Royal Wedding, I guess. I didn't watch it, but I damn sure got online as soon as I woke up and checked out the dress. That was really all I cared about.

Kate Middleton's Dress Is Finally Revealed| Royal Wedding, Kate Middleton, Prince William
Kate Middleton and sister Pippa in McQueen arrive at the Abbey
Pascal Le Segretain / Getty
She really is absolutely, stunningly beautiful. I'm sure she is not perfect - probably eats cottage cheese out of the container and never changes the toilet paper roll when it is empty, but with looks like that, I would do whatever I wanted. So congrats to them and the beautiful show they produced today!


Mike as Cher, Amanda as Sonny







Now back to the birthday boy - Mike Ryan. He is also stunningly beautiful! See for yourself in his Cher costume!
Doesn't he look magical? What a looker!

Mike,

Thank you for being the amazing person you are! We may not be royalty, but I sure feel like it! Have a fabulous day Sweetheart! You are loved by many- especially me!

Love, Sonny Bono

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Social Media - How to and How to Not Use it

The other day my Twitter friend (@coxymoney) sent me a tweet asking how my husband and dogs were.
I thought it was really awesome! Let it be known, I have never met this man (I know that sounds way creepy, but keep reading), but he remembers what I post and he uses it to build a relationship. He truly networks. He just doesn't sell, sell, sell. He is the person behind the business curtain that comes out and shoots the shit too! Mainly, because he knows building those relationships is key.


Everyday, I receive "come to my show," "visit my restaurant," "vote for me," "read my blog" and I try to do those things, but not anymore.... my time is too precious, there are too many options, and I'm overwhelmed with the sell, sell, sell tactic.

So in short - make it personal!
  • When people message you, say something back that shows you get those messages.
  • When they give to your organization, write them a personal thank you note.
  • When they check-in at your place of business, try to track them down and personally thank them. 
  • When they refer someone to you for business, an audience or help - go out of your way to do the same for them!
And remember, there are too many options out there! Set yourself apart and keep friends and customers loyal for life!

Learn more about Ryan Cox here! and stay tuned as I start using my blog again for awesome marketing tips, life lessons and general FUN!

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Monday, December 14, 2009

I Think Stephen King is pretty awesome

Stephen King to pay for troops' holiday trip home

BANGOR, Maine – Author Stephen King and his wife are donating money so 150 soldiers from the Maine Army National Guard can come home for the holidays.


King and his wife, Tabitha, who live in Bangor, are paying $13,000 toward the cost of two bus trips so that members of the 3rd Battalion, 172nd Infantry Unit can travel from Camp Atterbury in Indiana to Maine for Christmas. The soldiers left Maine last week for training at Camp Atterbury. They are scheduled to depart for Afghanistan in January.

Julie Eugley, one of King's personal assistants, told the Bangor Daily News that the Kings were approached about giving $13,000.

But Stephen King thought the number 13 was a bit unlucky, so the couple pitched in $12,999 instead. Eugley chipped in $1 to make for an even $13,000.

Information from: Bangor Daily News, http://www.bangornews.com

Friday, December 11, 2009

How dare I order a gift and pay for it to be shipped in 2 days....

and USPS decides they are just going to reschedule it and I won't get it for 5 days. REALLY? They wonder why everyone is going electronic with cards, mail etc? Maybe it's because you suck at your job!

ANNOYED -

But on a happier note!


Kelly has the right stuff for Notre Dame

By Dan Wetzel, Yahoo! Sports

12 hours, 29 minutes ago

No one ever knows whether a coaching hire is going to work; even can’t-miss marriages sometimes do.

A college can only hire the guy who answers the most questions, the candidate who has the fewest doubts possible. That man for Notre Dame is Cincinnati’s Brian Kelly, a hiring I called for last month when it was clear Charlie Weis was a goner. Now that it’s official, there should be joy in South Bend.

Kelly has extensive experience as a head coach – 20 seasons of it. He’s a proven winner, putting together championship teams at Division II Grand Valley State in Michigan, mid-major Central Michigan and BCS affiliate Cincinnati.

He’s a known recruiter, particularly in Notre Dame’s Midwestern base. He understands all of the peripheral duties that come with college coaching – alumni, faculty relations, media, etc.

Weis, when he was hired as the offensive coordinator from the New England Patriots, had done none of these things. He proved capable at some of the jobs, but not enough. In the end, despite recruiting some great talent and putting together an explosive offense, he couldn’t win enough games. Notre Dame was 6-6 this year.

Weis was a gamble for Notre Dame. Kelly is a safe – yet no less exciting – choice for the Irish. It’s certainly possible it won’t work, but there are simply no signs to suggest that.

No matter the endless chorus of detractors, Notre Dame remains one of the dozen best jobs in college football – a combination of resources, tradition, facilities, media exposure and scheduling flexibility. It may not be No. 1, but it isn’t just any old place either.

Weis should be forever thanked for proving that highly sought recruits still want to play in South Bend. His problem wasn’t beating Southern California or Florida for talented high school prospects, even with Notre Dame’s higher academic standards. Indeed, only Florida, Alabama, USC, Tennessee and Ohio State signed more Rivals.com five-star recruits the past four years than Notre Dame.

Weis just couldn’t coach them well enough, losing multiple games each season to lesser-talented clubs such as Navy, Syracuse, Connecticut and so on.

It’s why one of Kelly’s chief attributes should be so valuable – he knows how to win with other people’s players.

This isn’t Rich Rodriguez going to Michigan and demanding the roster change dramatically for him rather than he change even a little bit for it. Rodriguez wants to run the spread and the spread only and if that meant watching a guy such as Ryan Mallett, possibly the No. 1 pick in the 2011 NFL draft, transfer to Arkansas, then so be it. Of course, so be it meant 1-7 in Big Ten play for the Wolverines.

Kelly has won with every kind of roster imaginable. He’s a coach, not a system. In Division II you adapt your game plan to your players because you can’t just go out and get the perfect group of players.

He’s always been about scanning his roster and finding guys he could make better. He develops what he has, not curses what he doesn’t. That included not just this year’s starting QB, Tony Pike, who was once a fifth-stringer for the Bearcats. It includes Pike’s midseason replacement, Zach Collaros, forced into action when Pike was injured. Kelly’s teams don’t miss a beat.

It’s why he should make an immediate impact on Notre Dame next season. Losing quarterback Jimmy Clausen and wide receiver Golden Tate to the NFL doesn’t help, but Weis didn’t leave a bare cupboard.

Clausen’s replacement will be former five-star recruit Dayne Crist, a redshirt sophomore with NFL potential. Game breaking receiver Michael Floyd and star tight end Kyle Rudolph also return. The defense should be more experienced and, of course, better if only because they can’t be much worse.

There is a strong recruiting class that can still be salvaged. The schedule is promising, just three true road games.

Kelly, 48, and a native of the north shore of Boston, is walking into a very good situation and when he’s done that before he’s won. This is not a guy who kicks away talented teams. If his clubs aren’t overachieving, they’re at least achieving. He just went a ridiculous 34-6 at Cincinnati, of all places.

He ought to be able to duplicate the immediate success that sent the Irish fan base into a tizzy when both Weis and Tyrone Willingham had big first seasons. The difference is Kelly should be able to sustain it.

At least that’s what the track record says, which is all you can judge at this point.

Notre Dame just hired a proven winner, a proven coach. That’s what they desperately needed.

Brian Kelly, the self-made man, has done everything in college football except win a BCS title game.

If that for some reason proved to be the only hurdle he can’t clear, well, after the last 16 years the Irish will more than live with it.


LET'S SEE HOW THIS GOES! GO IRISH!

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Mid-West Weather and helping the people who need it this winter...

So, I have totally slipped into the dark abyss of the Indiana winter. I am clawing and fighting to stay awake most days. I think the only reason I am able to function now is the new vitamins and the gym. Hopefully, if I keep losing weight, the more energy I will have.

This morning on the way in to work, I saw a man on the side of the road in raggedy clothing and a sign that said "I'm cold, please help!" I automatically started weeping and dug into my change compartment as I don't normally carry any cash - then I remembered the news story last year where a man was on the corner at the intersection at 82nd and Allisonville and pulled a woman out of her car and drove away. All because she was trying to give him some money. So, I drove on when the light turned green - he screamed and yelled as most of us continued on our way, which also made me feel better about my decision, but regardless, I felt like I should do more for people in that situation this holiday. So I started surfing all the volunteer sites and non-for-profits in the area and I found this:

NEED: The Coalition for Homelessness Intervention and Prevention has issued an urgent request for public donations of warm clothing and food to help individuals experiencing homelessness to survive during the winter season. Donations should be made at Wheeler Mission, 245 N. Delaware St and should specify the donation/contribution is for the 2009-2010 Winter Relief for the Homeless.

Get ready Mike, because we are cleaning out the pantry and coat closet tonight!

Please help this winter if you can too! This is a great way to give if you can't give cash this year - we all know we have a coat that doesn't fit us anymore. TEE HEE HEE

Amanda